Terkadang cinta bisa membuat senyum mengembang,, berkembang kembang (berbunga2 maksudnya)... tapi tak jarang cinta dapat membuat hati seseorang jadi meradang...
Fall in love,,, just feel it, and show it.. how much your love,
...or even you want tosay it to your beloved one,
"Aku menyayangimu, itulah nyatanya selama ini”
Entah kenapa saya sangat suka dengan ungkapan seperti itu, Ungkapan sederhana dan realistis, seolah tidak membutuhkan jawaban.
Tentu, Setiap orang berhak menggubahnya.. dengan kata2 ”muluk” dan tambahan embel2 lainnya. Seperti lazimnya saat ini ...”mau kah km jadi pacarku”...”aku tunggu jawabanmu”... Bahkan tak puas hanya dengan si janur kuning, pernah seorang teman saya bilang... ”selama bendera kuning belum berkibar, aku kan selalu menunggumu”
dan selanjutnya sepakat..jadian..deal.. (baca term and policy*)... bagi saya semua itu hanya basa basi cinta, mencari keterikatan, hak kepemilikan dengan sebuah label ”pacar”
Seringkali aku mendengar ..”Awas kamu jangan selingkuh ya pacarku”.. maybe u can continue with this sentence ” Hati hati ada anjing galak” (ups..!!)
dan bagiku kata "selingkuh" itu hanya ada untuk orang yang sudah menikah..
nggak jarang juga status "married" dengan mudahnya dipasang sebagai status facebook dan sejenisnya.. padahal masih dalam tahap "pacaran".. apakah ikatan sakral pernikahan dapat dengan mudahnya terpasang sebagai status2an?
why if you loved something just hold it loose... kalau dia benar2 menyayangimu, dia akan respek dan takkan berpaling darimu... jika tidak, mungkin he’s not the right person for u... he’s not that into you...
Dalam persepsiku status/ kepemilikan hanya ada pada ikatan sakral pernikahan.. dimana kita tak layak lagi melacurkan cinta... mengkhianati rasa, melepaskan tanggung jawab...
”will u be my girlfriend” vs ” will u marry me”
I think, the second sentence is pretty romantic
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(*)term and policy: Aku pacar kamu, jadi ak berhak atas kamu..(lho???).... Label ”pacar” wajib lapor 1x24 jam... km dimana,dgn siapa,pulangjambrp,awas gag kasi kabar..putus!!.. setor password, malam minggu rutin dan rentetannya. (honestly.. it’s really big no no for me)
---- hanya pendapatku..lain orang lain persepsi------
Gw dapet link entahlah darimana.. pas jam kosong dikantor iseng isenglah gw isi personality test ini.. walhasil tebak tebak buah manggis inilah hasilnya.... more or less benerlah.. want to try?? u can click here,
Your view on yourself:
You are intelligent, honest and sweet. You are friendly to everybody and don't like conflict. Because you're so cheerful and fun people are naturally attracted to you and like to talk to you.
The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for:
You are a true romantic. When you are in love, you will do anything and everything to keep your love true.
Your readiness to commit to a relationship:
You are ready to commit as soon as you meet the right person. And you believe you will pretty much know as soon as you might that person.
The seriousness of your love:
You are very serious about relationships and aren't interested in wasting time with people you don't really like. If you meet the right person, you will fall deeply and beautifully in love.
Your views on education:
Education is very important in life. You want to study hard and learn as much as you can.
The right job for you:
You're a practical person and will choose a secure job with a steady income. Knowing what you like to do is important. Find a regular job doing just that and you'll be set for life.
How do you view success:
You are afraid of failure and scared to have a go at the career you would like to have in case you don't succeed. Don't give up when you haven't yet even started! Be courageous.
What are you most afraid of:
You are afraid of things that you cannot control. Sometimes you show your anger to cover up how you feel.
Who is your true self:
You are full of energy and confidence. You are unpredictable, with moods changing as quickly as an ocean. You might occasionally be calm and still, but never for long.
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